Tips for managing stress and loneliness during the holiday season


The holidays are often thought of as a time of celebration and cheer. But for some, the holiday
season causes stress or leads to feelings of isolation or loneliness. These tips can help you manage stress
and anxiety during this time of the year.


1. Talk About It
Make a list of people in your life that you can talk to in times of distress. You can also schedule time each week to make sure you’re regularly checking in with friends, family members, neighbors, and other loved ones.

Additionally, you may wish to talk to a therapist, a counselor in your religious community, or an in-person or online support group.


2. Keep Busy
Keeping busy can help combat loneliness — especially if your plans involve others. Here are some ways to keep busy while staying connected:

  • Take advantage of technology – If you’re unable to leave home or your loved ones live far away, technology like video calling can help you stay in touch. You can cook or eat dinner together, read stories to young grandchildren, and even play games using mobile apps. 
  • Attend local events and activities – Check the websites of your local community center or public library to see what activities are happening. If you’re not tech-savvy, an online or in-person class is a great way to learn how to use video technology or social media.
  • Volunteer – Helping others can lift your spirits and even introduce you to new people in your community.


3. Plan Ahead
Between shopping, baking, visiting loved ones, and keeping up with your usual responsibilities, there’s a lot going on during this time of the year. Here are some tips to keep from getting overwhelmed:

  • Set aside specific days for different holiday activities (like decorating or wrapping gifts)
  • Create a budget so you do not spend more than you wish to on gifts or food
  • Plan a menu and make a grocery list before heading to the store
  • Say “no” when you need to — you don’t have to participate in every activity this holiday season


4. Unwind with Intention
The busyness of the holidays can make it difficult to stick to your usual routines, but it’s important to
make time for yourself, even if it’s just 15 minutes at a time. You can:

  • Go for a walk.
  • Meditate or do yoga. (As a plan member, you receive a discount on online yoga and meditation classes through Ompractice. Visit for more information.)
  • Read a book.
  • Listen to soothing music.
  • Sit outside and observe your surroundings.
  • Get a massage. (As a plan member, you receive a discount on massage therapy and acupuncture. Visit for more information.)


5. Take Care of Yourself
Remembering to care for yourself physically may help you feel better mentally: 

  • Nourish your body with healthy and well-balanced meals –  As a plan member, you receive discounts on meal delivery with Independent Living Systems as well as nutritional counseling with CarePartners of Connecticut-registered dietitians and licensed nutritionists. Visit for more information.
  • Get enough sleep each night — 7 to 9 hours
  • Move your body — 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week, at an intensity equivalent to a brisk walk. Your plan includes a SilverSneakers® membership at no additional cost. Plus, CarePartners of Connecticut CareAdvantage Preferred HMO members can use their Wellness Allowance toward the cost of fitness classes and membership. Unwind with intention at a qualified health club or fitness facility. See your Evidence of Coverage at for more information.


6. Seek Professional Help if You Need it
Feeling sad or stressed around the holidays is normal for a lot of people — especially if you’ve lost a loved one or cannot be with your loved ones.

But, if your sadness or anxiety causes physical ailments or prevents you from eating, sleeping, or keeping up with routine chores, speak to your health care provider or a mental health professional for additional help.

Members have access to AbleTo, which provides access to virtual mental health programs that can help you manage depression, stress, anxiety, and more. To learn more, visit or call 1-833-522-5386 (representatives are available 9 a.m.–8 p.m. Mon–Fri).*


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*AbleTo is covered through your outpatient mental health benefits and outpatient mental health copays will apply to each weekly therapy session.